Hello my loves! HAPPY SOBER SATURDAY!!!!
I just wanted to drop a quick line to let you know that relapse is ONLY a bump in the road., something that slows you down en route to your final destination- Freedom from Addiction. At times the road to addiction will be hard and you just might stumble and fall. What you’ve got to remember is not to allow the guilt from relapsing take you into a downward spiral of more relapsing. I think guilt is one of the things that can seem so hopeless at times about addiction because you’re trying to deal with things the way you’re used to so you relapse… And the guilt from relapsing makes you want to use, drink, etc more just to deal with what you’ve done…. And that is where the downward spiral can begin…
Do you stop and park at speed bumps when you’re driving? No!
Don’t let this be any different…
If you fall just get up and keep moving…
And yes, it IS a lot easier said than done. But you’re capable of beating your addiction.
Get up and keep moving…
You’re stronger than your addiction will allow you to believe.
You’re smarter than your addiction will ever give you the opportunity to show.
you are loved.
and you WILL beat your addiction.
Just keep moving!!
What drives you?….
A question that I realize can mean many things so of course, we’ll explore what I’m talking about a little.
Some of you know that I’m an aspiring actress. Always have been! Well, recently I’ve was blessed with several offers for several positions in theater that will span from now through this Summer. Great! I know… IM SO EXCITED!! In addition to those Theater jobs I was also offered a position in Hospitality. I was a bit apprehensive because I’ve done hospitality before and although I love interacting with people IM OVER IT! It always comes back to the fact that it’s just not what I REALLY want to do. I was still excited about the income I could generate with all of these new opportunities I had been blessed with AND what the increase in my bank account would mean for other areas of my life. I could move, help out more, FINALLY start a new initiative I’ve been trying to introduce to the blog, etc, etc, etc. The only thing is… This new hospitality job would eventually have conflicting hours with my sometimes VERY demanding Theater schedule BUT it is consistent in many ways that I need at the time. So, after praying and thinking and obsessing over what to do- I quit the hospitality job. Yep! Only 4 days in and I was done. I was very upset about it… I felt like I’d wasted the time of so many people and I just felt bad. I knew it was right though… So I marched forward with the decision.
A few of the first thing most people ask is “Will you make enough money doing Theater?” “Are you still going to be able to move?” Blah, blah, blah.
Honestly my answer is “I don’t know” I’m trusting that God will work it out for me. And I don’t know how or when… But I know HE WILL! I’ve said it a million times and I’ll say it again, I’m a faith driven person. Gods promise is enough for me to lean on.
I know many of you are probably wondering what this has to do with staying sober. Well, like me, some of you may have decided you aren’t going back to where you were. You’ve prayed about it, talked it out, obsessed over it and you’ve decided that every move you make will be a step in the right direction for your life, your career, your family, your dreams… Be strong enough to tell temptation NO when outside distractions come and paint a pretty picture of what one moment of your life can be like. Look at the big picture… How will you feel after? How do you feel even going into it? If you can say that the big picture regarding addiction is a good feeling then this post isn’t for you. Do what it takes to make big picture changes. Don’t be worried about what other people say because everybody just won’t understand. Find something good to be driven by. And don’t allow it to be materialistic, monetary, or a temporary fix. Those things will fail you every time!
Dont you dare look back! Keep going! Keep pushing!
There is life after addiction!!
Go find yourself!!
Hey guys!! In order to reach your full potential in life sometimes you have to reach out for help and there’s NOTHING wrong with that! In fact, I encourage it! Surrounding yourself with people who understand you will help you to truly expose everything and get to the root of the problem because you won’t feel like you’re being judged and they’ll share that desire and hunger to be better. When your family doesn’t understand or are so tired of your shenanigans that they don’t want to support, you’ll still have a team around you cheering you on and keeping you strong on your weakest days.
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